
I remember several years ago, I was having a three-way phone conversation with a friend of mine and a woman he had started dating. Both of us had known her for a very long time and in this conversation, she was catching me up on the going-ons of her life over the past several years I hadn’t seen nor heard from or about her. Read more…

Several years back, I was talking with a roommate about a woman we both knew who was a fine art/figure model that I had considered hiring to shoot with me in a photo shoot for a showcase I did some time before called, “The Ike Show.” Although she was very attractive, I wound up hiring someone else because I thought the other model was a better fit for my project. Read more…

A couple of days ago, I was sitting in my office at about 8:30pm in the evening and it was at that moment that I should’ve been headed to the gym. Read more…

The other day, I posted on social media the last blog I had written called, “Why it is REALLY Never Personal When Others Hate on You,” and lo and behold, under it, someone wrote a sarcastic comment that said, “Duh. NY 101. Who cares?” which I took personal…haha Read more…

Have you ever been annoyed or confused by the phrase, “Don’t take things personally?” Read more…

I personally believe that anger has gotten a bad rap because it is a very misunderstood emotion. Read more…

It’s funny when two people start dating, everyone is trying to be on their best behaviour because they don’t want to scare their new romantic interest away with their quirks, idiosyncrasies, neurotic behaviour, bad habits, past baggage or anything else they think may sour a “promising” beginning. Read more…

So, in the past few weeks I noticed something that I tend to do.
I noticed that when I get a compliment, my response is to put myself down. Read more…

Do you have a friend who, when he’s totally sober, is an amazing person, who you enjoy hanging out with, but when he gets some alcohol in him, not so much? He becomes this mean, angry, combative person, who tries to fight any and everyone who he thinks looked at him funny or copped some type of imaginary attitude with him? With him, it’s like the Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde story, where you don’t even recognize who he is. Read more…

There was a time in our lives, up until about 2-3 years old, when we couldn’t talk. So we dealt with the world around us strictly through our emotions.
- When we felt hungry, we cried.
- When our diapers needed changing, we cried.
- When we were tired we cried.
- When we got scared, we cried.
- When we wanted to be carried or held, we cried.
- When something was taken away from us, or wanted something, we cried as well.
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